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Wednesday, August 10, 2011

Saying "I love you"

Good day Mars,

     Today is the day that the Lord has made let us rejoice and be glad in it! Mars let's make it our #1 priority to tell our young boys that we love them. Let's not just show them and write love off as putting a roof over their heads, food on the table, wiping away the tears but "tell" them, explicitly.
     So in the future women don't have to deal with those men that have not a clue when it comes down to telling a woman this very same thing. You can meet a good guy, he can do all the right things minus his faults but he can't seem to muster up those three words. I can only speak for myself when I say, I really need to hear them.
     First of all, God tells us all through the bible as Jesus does too. My earthly father always told me this so we practice what we know. So, its naturally in us to say it, from God.
     I had a brother tell me that his mother never told him these three very or suppose to be, very natural words. So, now he looks at this or that time of sharing as something over analyzed and far too thought out. This can promote problems because I feel everyone needs to be told this without encouraging, nagging, guessing or asking, "do you love me?"
     I can still only speak for myself but action does speak louder but sometimes at the expense of covering or concealing the actual reasons behind why can't you say it! Maybe you as a woman have this same issue, not all the time but if and when this issue arises, how do we respond? 
     Talk to me Mars...this is just my entitled opinion.
Remembering that only if they, our men, really feel love for us, women, really then can these words at particular times can be naturally said.


I love you,

Jerri of Mars